In the first episode of 90 Day Fidelity: Before the 90-Day Season 5 Tell-All. In the first episode, Ben Rathburn insinuated that Kimberly Menzies is a predator.
Both reality TV stars were dating people who were decades younger than they were. This made for an interesting discussion.
Before the 90 days: Ben Rathburn & Kimberly first meet.
The group gathers together in New York City on the 3rd of April for a “tell-all” session with the audience. Kimberly meets Benjamin for the very first time during the season five finale’s first episode, which is an extensive tell-all.
While the initial meeting began with compliments and pleasantries, the situation quickly became tense. Kimberly Umar, 51, discusses her relationship with Usman “Sojaboy” Umar, 32 in the dressing rooms after the performance.
She, and her co-stars Benjamin Berkowitz and Elle Johnson, discuss the negative feedback they received during the season.
Kimberly expressed her feelings, saying: “There’s a lot to judge for me going there and listening to my heart.” This is absurd because, as you know, I should have done it all along.
Ben Rathburn explains his feelings about the relationship between Kimberly Usman and before the 90 days.
He says, “From what you observed, it seemed like you were coming on quite strong.” Kimberly defended her actions by saying, “I did what I wanted.
” Benjamin tells the audience backstage, “I’m going stereotype now so I’m in trouble.” “I’m stereotype now so I’m gonna get in trouble,” Benjamin says backstage at the tell-all.
He continues, “We as men are the predators.” We are lions searching for gazelles. You’re hoping it’s going to be a little race. You don’t just want to lie down.
Ben Rathburn says: “I wouldn’t have any idea what to do if I were ever attacked by a gazelle. It’s a big turn-off for me. He says to Kimberly: “But if Usman enjoys this sort of thing, then all power to him. But he appeared to not.”
Kimberly’s reaction to Benjamin’s dating idea
Ben Rathburn’s interview is immediately interrupted by the production team. Kimberly apologizes to her co-star while he is away. When he called him a predator, I lost respect for him. “I did not like it.”
She defends herself: “Everyone is only seeing part of me. You know what I mean? I didn’t feel that I was a predator. I feel 51.
I did what I wanted. This is how I feel. If it was perceived that I am a predator, then get out of this place. You shouldn’t even have said that to me. It was an insult as a female.”
Memphis Smith weighs into the argument between Kimberly & Benjamin. She calls out Ben’s hypocrisy in calling Kim a “predator” when he was with a woman 30 years younger.