90 Day Fiance : Why do people wonder why Shaeeda, who is 38, has never been married ?
I got so annoyed when his sister was like “she’s been engaged twice what’s wrong with her ?” Girl your brother went and got FULLY MARRIED twice. Wtf ?
On Sunday's episode of 90 Day Fiancé, Shaeeda and Bilal's ex-wife, Shaeeda , had an unpleasant talk about the prenup Bilal wants Shaeeda to sign before they marry. While the two ladies had previously met and were cordial, it is evident that the prenuptial agreement has had an impact on their relationship.
Shaeeda is divided about the prenup Bilal wants her to sign, pointing out that she has her own assets, such as a thriving yoga business in Trinidad and Tobago. Her sisters also pushed her to include her own criteria in the prenup before signing, such as the desire to have a child before the age of 40. Shaeeda is 37 years old and has never married or had children, but Bilal, 42, has two children with his ex-wife.
Shaeeda stated in Sunday's show that she wanted to establish a good connection with Shahidah because she is the mother of Bilal's children. When Shahidah phoned and requested to speak with her while Bilal was at work, she was worried. Shahidah informed Shaeeda that she thought they needed to talk because she was not just Bilal's ex, but also his buddy. Shaeeda informed reporters that Shahidah was approaching her "with an attitude."
"I'm grinning like the Cheshire Cat. I sensed something was up since she wasn't making eye contact "She stated.
Shaeeda promised Shahidah that she wished to establish a relationship with her children.
Shahidah then brought up the prenup and stated that while it was not her place to discuss it, she was concerned because she wanted to preserve her children's assets as well as Bilal's generational fortune. Shahidah then said unequivocally that she needed to know whether Shaeeda wasn't only there for Bilal's money. Shaeeda offered her a wonderful expression that spoke everything.
"I have a life in Trinidad," she clarified. "In my neighborhood, I'm well-known. I own and operate my own yoga studio. Just Google me and you'll see a lot of stuff, like me being in newspapers. So my attempting to obtain what he possesses has nothing to do with it. But, as a mother, I understand your concerns about protecting your children."
90 Day Fiance Shaeeda expressed anxiety since Bilal proposed
After only one week of dating in Trinidad and Tobago when he flew to meet her. She stated that she only wanted to ensure that Bilal was protecting himself and his children. Shaeeda stated that it was a necessary dialogue for her and Bilal, and she revealed that they had not reached an agreement on the prenup. Shahidah admitted to cameras that she "ruffled her feathers a little bit."
"I didn't come here to play games," Shahidah explained. "It was about showing her that I stand up for my children, so this was not a fun and games day for me; this is a talk that we need to have."
90 day fiance Shaeeda
Shaeeda made the following observation about their unpleasant meeting: "I'm absolutely taken off guard. For example, where does this hostility originate from? I believe it surprised her to find a lady in Bilal's home who is now the woman of the house. I get that this prenup is huge business, but you're preaching the wrong person. I'm not some little girl Bilal picked up on the side of the road chatting on social media. In Trinidad, I'm a successful lady."
In an earlier episode, Bilal explained to his sister that marriage includes a "business component" and that the number one reason people divorce is because they don't talk about money, which is what he was attempting to avoid with a prenup. When asked what he'd do if she didn't sign the prenup, he struggled noticeably.
"It's something I've always stated I want to happen," he remarked. "Obviously, I don't want to let go of love, but I'm also not... again, I don't think blindly, you know?"
90 Day Fiance : Why do people wonder why Shaeeda, who is 38, has never been married ?
Bilal, his family, and his ex are all so critical of others, with little self-reflection. What difference does it make that she has never married? Perhaps because she was using her mind and looking for the one for a lifetime rather than just the one for a while.
No one has ever questioned Bile Bilal why he's been "married" twice, if not three times, as he and Shaeeda share a spiritual marriage. So he's had one legal marriage and is now on his second "spiritual marriage," and no one is asking why he can't manage to keep a marriage or why he's 38 or whatever age he is and isn't married.
His family and ex behave as though she's some gold digger who has grabbed onto him, but he was the one who sneaked into her DMs. And she hasn't requested any lavish shopping or a 10 carat diamond, so what is the foundation for their prejudiced actions against her?
Since, to be honest, she's too wonderful for him, and he and his family should be kissing her ass and pleading with her to stay with him because she's the catch in this duo, not him.