You may be a fan of the hit reality series 90 Day Fiance. You may have seen the episode in which Shaeeda confided her problems with her husband Bilal to fellow cast member Yara.
Shaeeda revealed in the 90-day Fiance Tell All episode that Bilal controls their finances completely and will not open a joint account. This revelation caused many viewers to question Bilal’s behavior and accuse him of being manipulative and controlling.
He leaves me completely out of money. I don’t know how much money he makes. “I don’t even know how much he earns.”
The information given does not make it clear how Shaeeda’s financial freedom was lost in her relationship with Bilal.
It is possible that Shaeeda gave up her financial control to pursue a relationship with Bilal or that Bilal gradually took over the finances of the couple over time.
There may also be other factors involved, such as a lack of communication and a power imbalance within the relationship.
It’s crucial for a 22-year-old to know the dynamics of a good relationship, particularly when it comes down to finances. In a relationship, it is not unusual for one partner to be in charge of finances.
However, both partners should have a good understanding of their financial situation. It’s a sign of unhealthy behavior to keep financial information from your spouse.
“I’m realizing that I need to speak up and stand up for myself.” I’m looking forward to hearing more about the story. Shaeeda
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Shaeeda continued to explain that she had suggested a joint bank account and Bilal flatly refused the request. She explained that she did not know how the money had been spent.
Shaeeda also has no idea about Bilal’s finances. She is worried, and she’s right to be. This issue does not seem to build trust, which is important for their marriage.
Shaeeda has also stated that she will not back down and request access to the couple’s finances. Hope she follows through and that it does not cause further rifts in the relationship.
Shaeeda’s experience running her own business in Trinidad and Tobago has demonstrated that she is a competent financial manager.
TLC’s portrayal of Bilal on 90 Day Fiance has been a source of suspicion for fans. But this could be yet another example that paints him in a less-than-positive light outside the show. The couple may have more drama as they work through this issue.