'90 Day Fiancé' , Season 9 Episode 13 Recap 'The Elephant In The Womb'
The 90 Day Fiance show from last night was packed with shocks. It's amazing how many of these couples each season disregard all of the warning signals.
I honestly feel terrible for them, despite all of the pleasure and drama it brings. It must be really difficult to leave everything and everyone you know and just have a few months to be married and adjust to a new life.
But it doesn't mean they don't bear part of the blame. Most of these couples do not seem to have talked and agreed on some of the most crucial issues before applying for their K-1 Visa.
Emily undergoes a pregnancy test. Patrick insists that Thais tell her father the truth. Guillermo has cold feet. Shaeeda doubts Bilal's motivation for requesting a prenup.
Mohamed gives Yvette an ultimatum. Miona tells Jibri‘s mom they are eloping(run away secretly in order to get married). Let’s get straight to the recap.
Table of contents.
- Patrick, 31 (Austin, Texas) and Thais, 25 (Brazil) .
- Emily, 29 (Salina, Kansas) and Kobe, 34 (Cameroon) & Kara, 29 (Charlottesville, Virginia) and Guillermo, 23 (Venezuela).
- Bilal, 42 (Kansas City, Missouri) and Shaeeda, 37 (Trinidad and Tobago) & Jibri, 28 (Rapid City, South Dakota) and Miona, 23 (Serbia).
- Yvette, 48 (Albuquerque, New Mexico) and Mohamed, 25 (Egypt).
Patrick, 31 (Austin, Texas) and Thais, 25 (Brazil).
Thais gather with friends for a house party to discuss her relationship with Patrick. She is questioning if she made the proper choice to marry him . She believes that since he is the earner or the unique provider in there house , he has no problem making decisions without her.
Her friends advise her to be straight with him so that she may have a voice in their future plans. Despite his dad initial support of her relationship with Patrick , her friends are surprise to learn that Thais has yet to inform her father of her engagement.
Thais confronts Patrick about making all of the wedding choices. He tells her that he is not attempting to do everything; in fact, it is starting to wear on him. He maintains that he just called merchants because of her English.
He also wonders whether she cares about the marriage since she still refuses to notify her father about it. This seems to be a simple thing to do.
Thais !!! stop being passive aggressive and try to behave like an adult and tell your father the truth. This could be a very big moment for him as well .
Emily, 29 (Salina, Kansas) and Kobe, 34 (Cameroon).
Emily surprises Kobe by informing him that she could be pregnant . They rush to the drugstore for a pregnancy test, only to discover that she is actually pregnant. Obviously, the timing isn't ideal given that they're still attempting to get back on their feet.
Also, when Kobe initially arrived in America, Emily's parents insisted that this be the one thing they did not do. Sigh! Emily's strategy is to keep her pregnancy a secret until she is compelled to tell it.
She gets irritated when Kobe does not seem to be pleased right away. He is clearly anxious since he knows her family would blame him for their situation. They are also unable to rear another kid without the assistance of her family.
Kara, 29 (Charlottesville, Virginia) and Guillermo, 23 (Venezuela).
Kara is experiencing wedding fatigue now that she and Guillermo have chosen to do a grander ceremony. Because her fiancé is a foreigner in the nation, she feels that she is shouldering the majority of the responsibilities.
Guillermo is eager to assist, but Kara's dominating nature has raised its head once again. Guillermo's conversation with his hairdresser only makes him more concerned about Kara's actions. He had hoped that after they were married, things would change, but he is now realizing that this may not be the case.
Guillermo and Kara go out to dinner where he confronts her on some of their issues. When he asks her if she is willing to change some of the things that he doesn’t like, she is infuriated.
She seems more upset that he is bringing this up 2 days before the wedding, than the fact that they even have these problems. Instead of using this as an opportunity to work on things, she just goes off and displays more red flags. Good luck Guillermo !
Bilal, 42 (Kansas City, Missouri) and Shaeeda, 37 (Trinidad and Tobago).
Shaeeda confronts Bilal about his ex wife's on things they talked about the previous time they met.
In her own house, she felt humiliated and harassed. Unfortunately, Bilal does not seem surprised or disturbed by the talk.
He does, however, acknowledge that their prenuptial agreement should not be shared outside of the couple.
Shaeeda is clearly irritated that he didn't say anything to convince her that his ex-wouldn't do it again.
Bilal gives Shaeeda a copy of the prenup, and she can't disguise her disappointment.
The 90 Fiancé star believes it symbolizes how hard she will have to work in America to achieve anything.
She will get nothing from Bilal millions if they divorce.
But Shaeeda chooses to have the agreement reviewed by a lawyer before signing anything.
Jibri, 28 (Rapid City, South Dakota) and Miona, 23 (Serbia).
Jibri's mother and Miona talk about their problems in the hopes of addressing some of them. Miona strives to compromise without letting the demands of others to dictate her ambitions. She has agreed to postpone her wedding for a year.
She does, however, want to go out of state to shoot photographs.
Jibri's mother informs her husband about the intentions after their talk, and he is displeased. They apparently did not anticipate Jibri and Miona's decision to marry. At this point, I believe they should let their youngster mature and make his own choices.
Yvette, 48 (Albuquerque, New Mexico) and Mohamed, 25 (Egypt).
Yvette and Mohamed disagree over their wedding arrangements. He wants to marry sooner at a mosque, whereas Yvette is waiting for the right location.
He is eager to marry so that he may finally enjoy the privileges that his green card will bring. But she isn't bothered about having to wait a bit longer if it means they will have a lovely wedding.
Mohamed gives an ultimatum the following morning. He wants her to consent to rapid marriages so he can finish his papers. If she is unable to satisfy his expectations, he threatens to find another sponsor.
Yvette is taken aback and starts to doubt whether Mohamed genuinely loves her. To be honest, I don't believe these two should marry. There are just too many warning flags for them to simply expect them to disappear after they marry.
Is a month's delay going to make a significant impact in his ability to work in 6 months ?
LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS: IS MOHAMED JUST LOOKING FOR A GREEN CARD, OR DOES HE WANT TO WORK? SHOULD YVETTE ACCEPT HIS ULTIMATUM? ARE JIBRI'S PARENTS INVOLVED TOO MUCH? IS PATRICK IN CHARGE OR JUST TRYING TO HELP?
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